There is so much to tell you and I'm just going to jump right into it!!
One of our good friends (and DeReK's good friends), Herman Garcia, messaged me with a photo and story after I posted the blog about DeReK. Herman was unable to message during the week leading up to the post because he was in drills and did not have access to his phone. Here is the photo and story he sent:
photo was taken when I helped Derek move to Dallas. He was a big OU fan obviously and we enjoyed watching, talking crap on Texas longhorns. Every start of football season I think about watching games together when we were at NSU.
I miss him and another thing I wanted to share was how he has inspired me even today on establishing a relationship with the Lord. I faced some trials in life and I often think about how strong his faith and I wish sometimes I could call him and talk about scripture and what I could do to grow my faith but I know one day in heaven we'll be able to hang out and hang out with God talking about OU football. Marley recently asked me where she got a caterpillar and I told her uncle Derek got it for her and I told her how he was daddy's friend and how he was a good man I even showed her this photo. She said we were silly which she was right. Being around him you knew you were going to laugh about something. I love you and Bart and Shaina and August, Melissa. Happy Birthday Derek.
We're so proud of Herman. He's become an incredible man and father. He's a proud American and a great law enforcement officer. We love Herman and his family and I was so glad to hear from him.
William LARKIN and Minerva UNDERWOOD LARKIN (Dad's family); and, William and Laura (BULLOCK) RITER (Mom's family)
Going back a couple of weeks ago to when I was talking about William LARKIN: I was able to acquire both of the death certificates I talked about in that blog post. The one that I speculated might be Minerva UNDERWOOD LARKIN was, unfortunately, not her. However, the person it was is related so I want to talk about that for a minute. I actually wanted it to be it's own blog post (and maybe it will be someday) but for now I'll just give you the straight information without a story. It turns out the death certificate was for an infant that did not live. The baby belonged to Samuel Anglus and Frances DEAN (or possibly BEAN) LARKIN. Samuel was a brother to our William listed above so the baby was our William and Minerva's nephew. The baby was not named therefore there was no name on the death certificate other than her last name. She died the same day she was born- 19 March 1917. I do believe she lived a few hours since the death certificate says she lived 1 day as opposed to saying she was stillborn. The cause of death was “premature labor”. She was born in McBride, Cherokee County, Oklahoma and is buried at Baldridge Cemetery in Gans, Sequoyah County, Oklahoma. I don't know if her grave is marked but I'm hoping to go see about it soon. I would say that it probably is not marked for the simple reason that when I looked up that cemetery online, there were only 2 graves listed and neither was hers. I created an online memorial for her if you would like to go leave flowers. You can find it here . Even though her mother's surname on the death certificate is BEAN, the marriage certificate for Samuel and Frances says “DEAN”. If I had to choose one, I would say the correct name is probably DEAN. I'm sure Frances was upset and stressed at the time the baby died. The doctor wrote up the death certificate information. I'm sure he wrote what he thought he heard which accounts for the BEAN name. I could be wrong but that's my guess and my theory. I'm not going to include other details because I'm looking for an opening in my schedule to tell you about this family soon. Most likely, there is no death certificate for Minerva UNDERWOOD LARKIN but I'm going to keep searching until I've exhausted all avenues.
The next death certificate was the one I hoped was for our William LARKIN. If this William LARKIN is related, I haven't found the connection. This William was born in 1851 in Illinois and died in 1926 in Tulsa, Oklahoma. None of our direct-line LARKIN's went through Illinois so if he's related it would have to be through a collateral line (brother/sister of our direct-line ancestor).
One more issue with William LARKIN. I attempted to get more information about the mine he owned. Mom and I visited the Missouri Southern State University Archives & Special Collections and spoke with Archivist Charles Nodler. He oversees an incredible collection of Tri-State Mining maps. I was able to narrow down the section of Aurora where the mines are located but was unable to locate the specific mine William owned.
See all those tiny dots on the map? Each tiny dot is a mine shaft! This is only the town of Aurora.
All is not lost- there are other places I can look but I wanted to keep you updated on the search for the mine that was once in the family. While there I asked if there were documents that might list miners in the area and associate them with a particular mine – employment records or whatever might list names and associate them with mines. Bart and I and even our daughter-in-law all have many miner-ancestors who were working in the Tri-State area. The archivist didn't know of any employment records and pointed us back to city directories. I have access to some directories online but he did take us to the directories he had on hand. We were able to find my mom's grandparents, William and Laura (BULLOCK) RITER in the 1925 Polk's Directory for Joplin. I wrote about Laura in week 1 and have written about William *****in the Lost and Found series that starts here.
Ralph LARKIN and Alice UNDERWOOD EDENS
The same week I wrote about William LARKIN, I also wrote about Ralph LARKIN and his sister, Alice EDENS. I hypothesized that Alice was Ralph's sister and not his aunt. I gave my reasons for this belief. Here is one more piece of documentation that further supports the theory that Alice is Ralph's sister, not his aunt.
(Jess is Ralph's brother.)
In addition to this article, I found one more news article this week about Ralph and Bess announcing the birth of their son, Paul, so I thought I would share it here:
Dettie Louisa GIBSON BATES and Her Mom, Lucinda DOW ALBIN GIBSON JONES GATEWOOD
Last week I wrote about Dettie Louisa GIBSON BATES and her sibling, half-siblings, and step-siblings (all 23 of them!!). When Mom and I visited the archives at Missouri Southern State University, we looked not only at the Tri-State Mining Maps collection but also at a small file about the Old Peace Church Cemetery in Joplin, Jasper County, Missouri. Dettie's mom, Lucinda DOW ALBIN GIBSON JONES GATEWOOD, is buried there but we've been unable to locate her exact burial spot. We were hoping to find it or at least get a little closer. Unfortunately, what we discovered is that we will probably never know for sure where her burial spot is. Information in the file shows that no burial records were ever kept and in fact, information about burials were so bad that sometimes bodies were buried on top of other bodies. I haven't given up, but I'm not holding out much hope we'll ever get any closer than we've already gotten.
Troy and Jessie RITER BATES
Remember last year when I wrote about finding a deed? I took one of the deeds and compared it to Satellite maps on Google and came up with finding directions. (See blog post here) Well, one day this past December when Bart was off work I asked him to go driving around with me and we found what we believed was the property listed in the deed. Then this week I took my mom back to that area and asked her to show me where their old property was and she took me to exactly the place Bart and I had gone. (It's nice to have validation!) She had so many stories to tell me connected with that place. I took photos both times I went and when I get an unscheduled day on the blog (soon) I'm going to post the photos and stories for you. It was a nice trip. She also showed me some of the properties where her grandparents lived and I'll be using photos of these properties later in the year on future blog posts.
Enjoy your weekend, family! I start my new job next week so I'm hoping I can keep up with the blog!! Bart starts jury duty next week too, so it's going to be a crazy week here.
Lisa @ Days of Our Lives